14 Ways to Build Self Esteem In Kids

1. Respond to each child individually-call him by name.
2. Take time to talk with the child about what's important to him/her.
3. Use positive guidance and suggestions whenever possible. Reinforce the behaviour you like.
4. Keep your expectations consistent with the child's stage of development and ability--be realistic
5. Give a child an opportunity to make choices and take responsibilities that fit his stage of development.
6. Provide opportunities for the child to succeed--challenge him/her when the chances of success are good.
7. Give a child quality time--it's more important than quantity
8. Compare a child's skills against his previous accomplishments--avoid comparing him to other children, especially brothers, sisters, and fellow classmates.
9. Avoid shaming or labelling a child.
10. Be a good model--children learn through watching adults.
11. React to the behaviour instead of the personality. ("I don't want the classroom cluttered with materials" instead of "You're a messy, bad boy.")
12. Give a child your recognition for his accomplishments
13. Accept the child's feelings--negative and positive--without judging him
14. Be your students’ mentor and cheerleader!